*_﷽-الصــلوة والسلام عليك يارسول الله ﷺ_*
~*__________________________________________*~ *POST👉1⃣7⃣ ❄Bab-E-Awwal❄* ~*__________________________________________*~
✨ *_MU"AAMLAAT_*✨
💫 _Muamlaat Agar Na Ho Durust Insan Ke_
_To Janwar Se Bhi Bad'tar He Admi Ki Hayaat_ 💫
*📍(3) AURAT SHADI KE BAAD*
*_Part-5_*
✳ *SHOHAR KE SATH ZINDGI BASAR KARNE KA TAREEQA :-* _Yad rakho ki *Miya'n-Bivi* ka rishta ek aisa mazboot ta'Alluq hai ki sari umr isi bandhan me reh kar zindgi basar karni hai. Agar Miy'n-Bivi me poora poora ittehad aur milap raha to is se bad kar koi ne'mat nahi. Aur agar Khuda na kare Miya'n-Bivi ke darmiyan ikhtilaaf paida ho gaya aur jhagde taqraar ki Naubat a gayi to isse bad kar koi musibat nahi ki *Miya'n-Bivi* dono ki zindgi *Jahannum* ka namoona ban jati hai aur Dono umr bhar ghutan aur jalan ki Aag🔥 me jalte rehte hai'n._
✴ *IS Zamane me Miy'n-Bivi ke jhagdo ka fasaad is qadr zyada fel gaye he ki hazaaro ghar is ikhtilaf ki Aag me jal rahe'n hai'n aur Miya'n-Bivi dono apni zindgi se bezar hokar din rat maut ki duaye manga karte hai'n. Is liye ham Munasib Samajhte he ki is maqam par chand aisi Nasihate likh de'n ki agar Mard wa Aurat in par amal karne lage to ALLAH ta Aala se umeed hai ki Miya'n-Bivi ke jhagdo se Muslim Muashra paak ho jayega aur musalmano ka har ghar Amn o Sukoon aur Aram wa Rahat ki jannat ban jayega.*
1⃣ _Har Aurat Shohar ke Ghar me qadam rakhte hi apne upar yeh Lazim kar le wo har waqt aur har haal me apne Shohar ka Dil apne hath me liye rahe aur usko isharo par chalti rahe agar shohar huqm de ke din bhar dhoop me khadi raho ya rat bhar jagti hui mujhe pankha jhalti raho to Aurat ke liye dunya wa aakhirat ki bhalayi isi me hai ki thodi taqleef utha kar aur sabr karke is huqm par bhi amal kare aur kisi waqt aur kisi haal me bhi shohar ke huqm ki na farmani na kare._
2⃣ *Har Aurat ko chahiye ki wo apne shohar ki Mizaj ko pehchan le aur bagaur dekhti rahe ki us ke Shohar ko kya kya cheeze aur kon kon si bate'n Na-Pasand hain aur wo Kin-Kin bato se Khush hota hai aur Kon-Kon si bato se Naraz hote hain Uthne-bethne, Sone-Jagne, Pehnne-Audne aur Baat-Cheet me us ki Adat aur us ka Zauq kya aur kesa hai? Khoob Acchi tarah Shohar ka Mizaj pehchan lene ke baad Aurat ko lazim hai ki wo har kaam Shohar ke Mizaj ke Mutabiq kare Hargiz Hargiz Shohar ke Mizaj ke Khilaf Na koi Baat kare Na koi Kam.*
📃 _Page No. 52 53_
📚 *_Book Name: Jannati Zevar_*
_♻To Be Continue......🔜🔜💝_
~*__________________________________________*~ *POST👉1⃣7⃣ ❄Bab-E-Awwal❄* ~*__________________________________________*~
✨ *_MU"AAMLAAT_*✨
💫 _Muamlaat Agar Na Ho Durust Insan Ke_
_To Janwar Se Bhi Bad'tar He Admi Ki Hayaat_ 💫
*📍(3) AURAT SHADI KE BAAD*
*_Part-5_*
✳ *SHOHAR KE SATH ZINDGI BASAR KARNE KA TAREEQA :-* _Yad rakho ki *Miya'n-Bivi* ka rishta ek aisa mazboot ta'Alluq hai ki sari umr isi bandhan me reh kar zindgi basar karni hai. Agar Miy'n-Bivi me poora poora ittehad aur milap raha to is se bad kar koi ne'mat nahi. Aur agar Khuda na kare Miya'n-Bivi ke darmiyan ikhtilaaf paida ho gaya aur jhagde taqraar ki Naubat a gayi to isse bad kar koi musibat nahi ki *Miya'n-Bivi* dono ki zindgi *Jahannum* ka namoona ban jati hai aur Dono umr bhar ghutan aur jalan ki Aag🔥 me jalte rehte hai'n._
✴ *IS Zamane me Miy'n-Bivi ke jhagdo ka fasaad is qadr zyada fel gaye he ki hazaaro ghar is ikhtilaf ki Aag me jal rahe'n hai'n aur Miya'n-Bivi dono apni zindgi se bezar hokar din rat maut ki duaye manga karte hai'n. Is liye ham Munasib Samajhte he ki is maqam par chand aisi Nasihate likh de'n ki agar Mard wa Aurat in par amal karne lage to ALLAH ta Aala se umeed hai ki Miya'n-Bivi ke jhagdo se Muslim Muashra paak ho jayega aur musalmano ka har ghar Amn o Sukoon aur Aram wa Rahat ki jannat ban jayega.*
1⃣ _Har Aurat Shohar ke Ghar me qadam rakhte hi apne upar yeh Lazim kar le wo har waqt aur har haal me apne Shohar ka Dil apne hath me liye rahe aur usko isharo par chalti rahe agar shohar huqm de ke din bhar dhoop me khadi raho ya rat bhar jagti hui mujhe pankha jhalti raho to Aurat ke liye dunya wa aakhirat ki bhalayi isi me hai ki thodi taqleef utha kar aur sabr karke is huqm par bhi amal kare aur kisi waqt aur kisi haal me bhi shohar ke huqm ki na farmani na kare._
2⃣ *Har Aurat ko chahiye ki wo apne shohar ki Mizaj ko pehchan le aur bagaur dekhti rahe ki us ke Shohar ko kya kya cheeze aur kon kon si bate'n Na-Pasand hain aur wo Kin-Kin bato se Khush hota hai aur Kon-Kon si bato se Naraz hote hain Uthne-bethne, Sone-Jagne, Pehnne-Audne aur Baat-Cheet me us ki Adat aur us ka Zauq kya aur kesa hai? Khoob Acchi tarah Shohar ka Mizaj pehchan lene ke baad Aurat ko lazim hai ki wo har kaam Shohar ke Mizaj ke Mutabiq kare Hargiz Hargiz Shohar ke Mizaj ke Khilaf Na koi Baat kare Na koi Kam.*
📃 _Page No. 52 53_
📚 *_Book Name: Jannati Zevar_*
_♻To Be Continue......🔜🔜💝_
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